6 Tips for Arranging Your Seating Chart

One of the most stressful tasks for the bride and groom to complete for their wedding day is the seating chart for the reception. Placing the wrong people next to each other for several hours, especially when alcohol may be served, could be potentially disastrous. If you are having problems coming up with a solution for where to stick various friends and family members, then the six tips listed below can help you devise the perfect plan of action for your seating chart.

1. Place People With Like Interests Together
If you have individuals who have never met each other that must sit together, at least make sure that they share many of the same interests. Chances are that even though they have not previously met, as long as they have some common thing to talk about, the mood at the table will not be tense or hostile. This allows guests to get to know new people in a less stressful manner.

2. Older Guests Should Be Farthest From the Noise
Weddings can be loud affairs. Speakers can blast music at a level that would be very uncomfortable for older guests. Older individuals should be seated as far away from extensive noise as possible. This includes seating them at a fair distance from the dance floor and children’s tables as well. Loud noise could be especially troublesome to those who have hearing aids in as well.

3. Do Not Seat Feuding Family Members near Each Other
There are always family members or friends at wedding events who are feuding for one reason or another. The key is for the bride and groom to avoid seating those individuals next to each other in the seating chart. The percent of people who will not get along at a wedding is relatively low, so it should be possible to place the guests on opposite ends of the room to keep them from coming into contact with one another.

4. Make Sure Guests Know Others at Their Table
While it is okay to sit guests at tables with some members that they do not know, you should make sure that each guest knows at least one other person at their table. It can be very uncomfortable to be seated at a table where you do not know anyone else and there is no one that you have anything in common with.

5. Those with Special Roles Should be Seated Up Front
If you have guests who will be giving speeches or who will be putting on a special performance, then these individuals should be seated up front and near the dance floor or stage. This makes things much more convenient for them and cuts down on the time they spend fighting their way back and forth through the crowd.

6. Only Close Friends and Wedding Party at Head Table
Only close friends who are in the wedding party and family members should be seated at the head table. While it can be hard to make the decision of who sits at the table with the bride and groom, allowing anyone but the wedding party and close family members may insult others around you.

Creating a seating chart can seem much like rocket science at times. Knowing where to sit each guest does not come naturally to most couples. The six tips above can help you place each guest in a location that will be convenient and comfortable for them.

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The Wedding Budget

Be realistic about the budget. Before you start, lay everything down in black and white. Understand what things are going to cost and where the money is coming from. The biggest argument and biggest concern you are going to have is when you go over budget and where is the money coming from. Lay it all out. Stay on track. Stay within the budget. Everything else will fall into place. — Robert

Work within your budget. There is no need to overspend, especially in these economic times. You will find your wedding dollars will go a long way. — Jerry

Make sure you know the per-person price and the cost factor. That has to play into your budget and has to be one of the most important things. Understand what fees are associated with the menu. There are service fees, there are taxes, there are maitre de fees. There are all kinds of fees. When they give you a price make sure that is included. — Robert

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Picking a Date

Find a date that works for everyone. Be mindful of the guests that are coming, where they are coming from, time of year, time of day, and day of the week. It is important that everyone is comfortable. — Jerry
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The White Wedding Cake

When it comes to wedding cakes these days, pretty much anything goes, in terms of color, style, and decorations. There is something to be said, however, for the restrained elegance of a classic white wedding cake. From contemporary to ornate, these are some design ideas for the perfect white cake to suit any wedding.

White does not have to mean boring or plain. In fact, there are many ways to make a white wedding cake special and unique. The place to begin is by deciding on the general style of cake you wish to feature, modern, traditional, or eclectic. From there, the next consideration is the shape of the confection, and the arrangement of the tiers. Square layers tend to look more modern and sleek, whereas round is more traditional. That is not to say, however, that you cannot come up with a creative modern design using round tiers or an updated classic wedding cake in a square shape.

For a sleek contemporary white cake, stack square tiers, either three or five layers high (always work in odd numbers). Cover with a perfectly smooth fondant icing. With this base in place, you can begin to play with different decorating options. A five tier cake could be decorated with white on white vertical stripes to enhance its height and linear form. Think of a 1930s streamline deco moderne skyscraper for inspiration. Top it with a crystal monogram initial for a touch of cool glamor.

Square cakes can be used as a base for a tower of gift wedding cake design. This is a fun way to add a touch of whimsy into a cake that is very suitable for a traditional wedding reception. White on white frosting ribbons, bows, and decorations can be created using gumpaste, fondant, and texture over a buttercream icing. Let the top of the cake be decorated with a large frosting bow. If you like, ask your baker to use a pearlized addition to the frosting to add shimmer and contrast between the "boxes" and the "ribbons". It is a subtle but gorgeous effect which looks fantastic when the bride is wearing pearl bridal jewelry.

Flowers are always lovely on wedding cakes, and they are a fantastic addition to an all white cake. For the height of elegance, a white fondant cake can be adorned with handmade gum paste orchids. The exotic blossoms can cascade down one side of the tiers. Another beautiful idea is to cover the top layer of a round white wedding cake with an abundance of fresh white flowers. Roses and hydrangea work very well, as their round shape will easily cover the entire top tier when used in a group. Fresh flowers are not only very pretty, but less costly than gum paste blossoms.

Finally, there is the very traditional white wedding cake decorated with a profusion of white frosting swags, scrolls, bows, and pearls. This is a magnificent option for a very formal and grand wedding reception. The "pearl" accents on the cake will complement the bride's pearl bridal jewelry, and architectural details like swags and scrolls are marvelous in an ornately decorated ballroom. If you are looking for an impressive and traditional all white wedding cake for an elegant wedding, this design will be sure to please.

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What Do Consultants Do?

What Do Consultants Do?
Wedding Consultants can offer a wide variety of services from complete planning and coordination to wedding day coordination alone. The responsibilities cared for can also include offering suggestions and creative solutions to the many problems you may face during the planning process.  Another aspect of a Consultant's duties involves helping you to stay within your budget without sacrificing the vision of your perfect wedding day. Keep in mind that while the Consultant is also one of your vendors, their objective is to help you coordinate the wedding you have been dreaming of, always doing so in the most cost-effective manner.

How Much Do Consultants Charge?
Consultants charge for their services in three different ways: a percentage of the total budget, an hourly fee or a flat rate. The price you pay may also depend on where you live, the extent of the services the Consultant will provide and the size of your wedding. You may have to speak with several different Consultants and ask them about their pricing to find out which plan works best for you. Most consultants do, however, offer varying levels of service, so you can choose just how much help you will need.  For most couples a Wedding Consultant may seem like a luxury that they just cannot afford. However, this is a popular misconception. In fact, those on a restricted budget need a Consultant more than anyone else. A Wedding Consultant can save you money by helping you to stick to that budget, ensuring that you get the best service for the least amount of money.

Why Hire a Wedding Consultant?
Generally, a couple will know what they want and how much they can spend but may not know where to start. In addition, searching for reputable vendors takes a great deal of time that today's busy couple can't afford to waste. The biggest advantage of hiring a Consultant is that they do all the work for you. A Consultant will help you plan your wedding from start to finish. They will negotiate with vendors, schedule appointments and review contracts. More than anything else, a Consultant will save you time, money and a great deal of stress.  Organizing a wedding can be a challenge. The amount of time involved in coordinating a successful event can be exhausting. Hiring a Consultant can make the planning process effortless and your wedding day much more enjoyable. Consider the services offered by DESIGNS BY LADY VYE so you can begin planning the stress-free wedding you deserve.

Our venue has an on-site coordinator. Should I still hire my own Wedding Consultant?
We are happy to work with on-site coordinators when planning and arranging your wedding since they can be quite helpful with information regarding your chosen venue. However, their obligation is to the venue that they are employed by and they do not get involved with the overall planning of your wedding. They may also recommend vendors that they commonly work with but may not necessarily be suitable for your particular needs. Your Consultant will have a more detailed understanding of your plans and be better equipped to handle any last minute details to your specifications. In addition, the site coordinator may not be scheduled to work on the day of your wedding or may leave before the event is finished, while your Consultant would be there to oversee the entire event from beginning to end.

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More On Wedding Invitations

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Invitations inform your guests of the date, time, place and hosts of your occasion.

They also give your guests the first impression as to the style of your event.

Wording on all invitations is interchangeable or you can write your own.

Create your own look by choosing any ink color, lettering style or enhancement, such as bows or wraps.

Invitations should be mailed four to six weeks prior to your wedding date.

We recommend you order 25 more invitations than the number required for your mailing list. This allows for addressing errors and last minute guests. Ordering 25 more at a later date is considered a new order and is more expensive.

Personalize Your Invitation; We have programmed the choice selections through out this site to match the samples that are pictured. You should however change any of these settings to suit your wedding plans. Just choose the ink and lettering you like best, select a verse or write your own verse and view a proof. We encourage you to make changes to the wording, lettering and ink color and proof again until you are fully satisfied.

Decorate Your Invitation; There are many ways to make your invitation unique. When ordering your invitation, a message will be displayed if one of our beautiful translucent wraps that let your guests unwrap the news of your event or elegant self-adhesive bows is available.

Lined Envelopes are an inexpensive way to enhance the elegance of your invitation. Most invitations come with two envelopes. The outer envelope that is addressed to your guests' homes and the inner "ungummed" envelope that is addressed with your guests' names and fits inside the larger outer envelope. Add a lined inner envelope that matches your invitation and ink color. This is another way to add to a customized look to your invitation.

Printed Return Address on the back of the outer envelope will help assure the return of any invitation that may have addressing errors for you to re-mail. All lettering styles and ink colors are available to match your invitations.

All of our invitation ensembles receive a FREE copy of our Helpful Hints for Addressing Guide that explains the rules of addressing etiquette and how to assemble your invitation and accessories. We also provide a free guide that you insert into your envelopes to keep your handwritten address straight.

Reception Cards indicate the time and place of your reception. You include it only in the invitations of the guests whom you wish to attend your reception. Envelopes are not required.

Response Sets make it convenient for your guest to reply and for you to plan properly. They always include a line for the guest to write in their names, a line for the number of persons attending and a date asking for your guests to reply by. If you are offering your guests a menu choice, list them here. An envelope printed with your name and address is included. Response sets are a small expense in knowing how many meals for your caterer to prepare and ultimately can save you money on your reception costs.

Informals are a folded card printed with the name of the Bride and Groom, the Bride only or the new couples monogram. You can use these cards to write a personal note of thanks or for brief social notes. Order an ample supply to have them available anytime you need to write a note.

Thank You Notes are available with three printing options. You can have a short verse of thanks to your guests on the front, the words "Thank You" printed on the front or a combination of the two with the words "Thank You" on the front with a short verse of thanks printed on the inside.

Save The Date Cards; In this modern world it is more and more important to give your family and friends as much notice as possible of your upcoming happy occasion. This is especially true for out-of-towners. Try to send these cards at least three to four months before the wedding. Any informal shown on this site may be used as a Save The Date Card. To order just change the suffix letter after the item number from an “F” to a “Y”.

Return Address, Your return address printed on the back of your envelope assures that your note was properly delivered or will return any addressing errors to you for re-mailing.

Napkins Coordinate your reception colors with our super, soft three-ply napkins. They come in luncheon and beverage size in a wide variety of colors and are foil stamped with your names, wedding date and a design

Place cards are the best way to organize the seating at your reception. Your names and wedding date are featured in your choice of ink color and lettering style. Just write in your guest’s names and table number.

Favor Note Pads are great for guests to exchange phone numbers or make suggestions to the band. They are especially appropriate if your event is smoke free and you are not having matches. Favor Note Pads are available in an array of colors and are personalized with your name and date, a choice of designs and foil colors.

Matches are a traditional favor for your guests to take home and recall the event. Matches are available in ecru and white. There is also a white billboard match that can be used as a place card, and are personalized with your name and date, a choice of designs and foil colors.

Bookmarks are a unique addition to your wedding reception that allows your guests to remember your day long after the event. You are able to choose a variety of styles of designs, ink colors and verses personalized with your names and wedding date. This is a lasting way to say thank you to your guests.

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Yes, our oh so loved - David Tutera has a bridal collection by Faviana
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Short, Strapless, Bridal Satin Shutter Pleat Sheath w/ Flower Detail along the Hem

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Cascading Charmuese Panels with Champagne Ribbon Trim are the Unique Detail on this Tulle Bridal Dress. The Bodice has a Graceful Sweetheart Neckline & Empire Seam that is heavily embellished with Champagne & Crystal Beading.

A Few David Bridal Dresses That We Like!

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Taffeta halter A-line gown with ruched bodice and beaded lace appliques

 

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Taffeta pick-up ball gown with beaded metallic embroidered lace on bodice and skirt

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Taffeta A-line with beaded lace bust and fitted draped bodice

David’s Bridal - Style D9538

Halter taffeta pick-up gown with draped bodice and beaded lace empire

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Valentine's Day, Sunday February 14, 2010

Nothing could be more romantic than a wedding on Valentine's Day! It doesn't matter where you get married, if Cupid is there. If you love Valentine's Day, then go ahead and get married that day. It will be completely appropriate and expected to use all the readily available "heart and arrows" decorations you love. Your colors can be pink, red, and white. Red and pink roses would be awesome for the bouquet, but red and pink carnations would be just as appropriate. Your friends and family will have the perfect Valentine's date, right there at your wedding. You can give your guests Valentines for party favors or as thank-you notes. If you are sentimental or on a tight budget, then Valentine's is your winter wedding date.

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April 21, 2009 by Cherise Kelley

Are you planning a wedding in 2013, but…

You’re wondering if the day is to far?

No, the date is not far away.

However, a lot of things can change between now and then most importantly the fads! What’s in today may not be in tomorrow.

Make sure that all of your wedding party, important family and friends can make arrangements with their employer to get that time off – this far in advance. As you don’t want the date to get closer only to find out someone very, very special to you can’t attend.

The BEST Thing is by planning this far out – allows for great bargain buys and sales. You can have a Platinum Wedding, without stretching your dollars the year of your wedding; as you can manage from now to then. BUT I ADVISE YOU TO CLEARLY THINK OUT YOUR WEDDING COLOR SCHEME AND THEME, BEFORE MAKING ANY PURCHASES! Also, stay far away from impulse buys!

Please feel free to contact me if you need further assistance so we can plan you wedding together!