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Sunday, October 30, 2011

Boo-tacular Weddings and Events!

As Halloween approaches us and we enjoy festive gatherings with family and friends, in creative costumes – or not; one things for sure.... pumpkin recipes galore!

If you are celebrating a special occasion this Halloween, incorporate some of the theme of the holiday into your catering elements.

PHOTO CREDIT: www.drinkoftheweek.com

Try some of these beverages, courtesy of DrinkOfTheWeek.com

Pumpkin Martini ~ Vodka and pumpkin spice liqueur make for a simple Halloween treat. Garnish with candy corn for that extra touch.

Sleepy Hollow Fizz ~ Spice up a rum fizz with some pumpkin!

Pumpkin Margarita ~ Skip the limes and go for a pumpkin spice liqueur to turn a margarita into a spooky cocktail.

The Pumpkin Pie ~ Rum, Kahlua, milk and pumpkin pie filling.

READ MORE: http://www.drinkoftheweek.com/blog/pumpkin-cocktails-for-halloween/


Happy Halloween, Cheers - Enjoy!

Monday, May 9, 2011

How to Select the Perfect Wedding Dress

One of the most important decisions you will make before you get married is to select your perfect wedding dress. This is something that you have dreamt of since you were a child. But DO NOT let the hype and the pressure of years and years of anticipation cloud your judgment. After all, the dress is just a dress, and should never be bigger than the occasion.

One of the things you should to consider when buying a dress is the comfort level of the wedding dress. Sure it's nice to look like a princess on your wedding day, but if the dress causes you extreme discomfort; or cuts off your circulation; then it's not really worth it. The dress might even cause you to faint. Imagine what a nightmare that would be!

The wedding dress selection process usually starts months before the wedding. It's advisable for you to look through the pages of wedding magazines, or to visit wedding shops. Just to give them an idea of the different types of styles of wedding dresses that are available.

Consider your body types. It is important to get a wedding dress that looks good on you! You might have to try plenty of wedding dresses before you find that one dress that is perfect for you.

If you have set aside an extensive budget for your wedding dress, then you can always go for a designer dress. The most famous name nowadays when it comes to bridal fashion is still Vera Wang http://www.verawang.com/, but as the popularity for the David Tutera brand continues to grow, his line of wedding dresses David Tutera by Faviana; www.davidtuterabyfaviana.com/

Vera Wang is known for her luxurious detailing, craftsmanship, and hand beading. Vera Wang clients for her wedding line include: Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Simpson, Uma Thurman and Mariah Carey, just to name a few.

But if you don't have that much money to spare then you can always choose other options. There are a number of places where you can get your wedding dress that won't cost you a fortune. In addition to the more traditional bridal shops such as David’s Bridal; where you may have recently visited, wedding dresses are also available in: thrift shops, discount stores, online, and even eBay.

If you are buying on eBay, make sure the measurements of the wedding dress are included in the description. Also, the condition of the dress must be looked into. Check for feedback regarding that person's account, just to make sure that you are dealing with a credible dealer.
But if a traditional wedding is the theme you have in mind, then you might want to go for a vintage dress, in keeping with this theme. When buying a vintage dress, beware of discoloration, or stains on the dress. These might not come off so easily. Investigate the fabric of the dress; stretch it out to check for weakening, or tearing of the cloth. Try to buy a vintage dress that is made before the 1900's. Fabrics have a tendency to deteriorate, and weaken over time. Extraordinarily old vintage dresses might look romantic, but they might not be ideal for use.


If you really have your heart set on a specific design, but you find that that dress is too old to use, or too expensive, then you can always go for a reproduction wedding dress.

Many stores specialize on reproduction dresses. They design wedding dresses based on specific themes, or eras. Some specialty wedding shops also focus on designing knock-off wedding dresses, inspired by designer wedding gowns. The huge difference being, that these wedding gowns are retailed for the fraction of the amount.

There are so many ways you as a future bride can go about in search for her dream wedding dress. Searching for a wedding dress should be EXCITING and FUN! So make sure you have plenty of time in your hands before the big day, so this process doesn't become stressful, and wearisome. Instead a prelude to the happiness of the special occasion which is to become your wedding.



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Monday, July 19, 2010

Family Reunion on a Budget

Don't cancel the family reunion because the world is roaring in an "economic recession." In fact, it's during hard times that we learn family and our private relations with others are our most valuable possessions. The most vital things in life are not things.

Having said that, many people are being compelled to tighten purse strings. These ten pointers may help cut costs for your next family reunion:

1. Send postcard invites rather than flyers or letters. Postcards are the least costly way to send mail.

2. Less expensive yet, send invitations thru e-mail and communicate electronically. Family reunion sites are an excellent addition to your reunion and can function as a communication hub before, during and after your gathering. Many companies offer family reunion internet sites that let you track reservations and payments on the web. You may also create polls and upload pictures.

3. Change the locale -- reserve a campground or state park rather than a hotel or resort.

4. Shorten your stay -- cut a multi-day reunion down to a single afternoon picnic. Target the main reunion elements: a preliminary ice breaker activity, some variety of food, a family meeting or program; and an interactive, fun group activity.

5. Go potluck rather than catered; casual rather than formal. Drink water rather than soda. Whatever your folks are used to doing, back it down one level.

6. Do it yourself. Invites , games, souvenirs, decorations -- everything -- will be more cost effective if you or a member of the family does the work.

7. Be your own entertainment. Rather than hiring a band or DJ, or spending money on entry fees and tickets, plan a family talent show or perform group skits. Play cards, games... Send the youngsters on a scavenger hunt. Make up your own contests and awards.

8. Meet with purpose. Mix your reunion with another family event like a wedding, funeral or graduation.

9. Avoid the renion t-shirt. ( Or at least make your own. ) A family reunion t-shirt acts as a uniform -- a strategy of demonstrating who you are, where you come from and what you stand for. And, they make great reunion keepsakes. As fun as they are, shirts are a clear way to chop costs.

10. Gather every other year rather than yearly.

Family reunions can build connections, build identity and add meaning to day-to-day life. Do not let money get in the way of building lasting memories with the ones you love.

on behalf of; Reunion Memory Book reunion-memory-book.com

Friday, July 16, 2010

Event Hosting Blueprint

Event Hosting Blueprint

Hosting an entrepreneurial event is your very own film premiere or book launch, an opportunity for greater exposure, and a powerful way to engage new clients, lever­age your brand, increase profits, and generate some fantastic PR. It is an exhausting process, but one that is highly rewarding when planned and executed well. Our cut-out-and-keep guide contains vital tips and essential information to set you firmly on the path toward event hosting success.

A lucrative event needs a clear vision behind it, so you must first decide on its objectives and goals. Ask yourself the following questions:

•What outcome and tangible results do I want to see from this event (i.e., increased sales, introduce a new product, raise awareness of business)?

•What change do I want to effect in my guests?

•What do I want people to say after the event?

Once you know your purpose you can then set about envisioning the event. Planning for it is crucial and should be started at least four to six months in advance.


What should the event look like?

This is your big moment in the spotlight and your event should be planned like a show. Content, of course, is of paramount importance, but you must also spend time thinking about the look and feel of your event. Whether it is about life coaching, customer service, or financial planning, you want to wow your audience with an amazing experience. So be daring, think out of the box, and have fun while you’re doing it.

Start by writing a plan of what you want to offer and come up with a general theme. Work out how much time you want to spend welcoming the guests, and allow enough space between sessions so that participants can network and exchange opinions.

Decorate the location with banners and logos and don’t hold back on the handouts or advertising materials. Offer gift bags and other promotional items and set up an attractive stall for your merchandise.

And no matter what the event or who is in the audience, include a host of ice-breakers and team-bonding exercises to get everyone electrified and energized. You’ll be amazed at how quickly a room full of strangers will be chatting away like old friends and swap­ping ideas.

Choosing a venue

You are not just picking a room to contain your event, but an essential component that will have a significant impact on its success. Finding the right place is a challenge that takes time, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

The venue is more than just a roof over your guests—it must also offer superlative facilities, an enjoyable atmosphere, and be easily accessible. Use our venue checklist to help you select the perfect setting:

•Venue size—This is a delicate decision. You will want as many people to attend as possible, but if it is too large and you don’t get a full house, the atmosphere will flatline. Some events benefit from a more intimate setting, so it is important to ensure that the venue complements the occasion.

•Aesthetics—Are you looking for a visually stunning setting or a space that you can decorate yourself?

•Amenities—Are they up to scratch and do they fulfill your needs?


You need to check that the venue has:

- Adequate parking facilities
- Disabled access
- Enough chairs and tables
- Nearby restrooms
- Enough power outlets for electronic equipment
- No visual obstructions within the room
- No noise obstructions from adjacent rooms and halls

•Location—While most people have a car, it is preferable to find somewhere that is easily accessible by all forms of public transport. If your clientele is national, being near a major airport helps too. Ensure that there are excellent hotels nearby and negotiate preferable room rates for your attendees.

•Catering facilities—Ensure that your guests are well fed and watered, or there are enough options for them to feed themselves. The food and drink must be excellent with more than enough to go round, though you don’t want to give people too much, as they might doze off during your sessions. Using external caterers is an option.

•Is it within budget?—You have found a terrific venue in a wonderful location with first class facilities, but can you afford it? Don’t stretch your budget to the break­ing point to acquire the perfect place. Some venues may offer discounts, and it may also be worth bargaining about the price. Consider additional costs, too. For example, will the venue’s insurance cover your event or will you have to take out your own?

Above all, it’s about common sense. So visit the venue several times if necessary, and ask yourself if it is somewhere you’d like to spend several hours. If it doesn’t feel right, move on to the next location on your list.



How Much Should I Charge For My Event?
• Consider the value you’ll be delivering at your event, then do a little market research.

• Look at what the competition is charging and how much you think participants are willing to pay.

• If this is your first event you may want to charge less to attract a crowd, but don’t go too low as this will send out the wrong sort of message.

• If the people are only selecting your event because of price you are in trouble, as a competitor can always lower theirs.

• Quality never goes out of fashion and is always worth it. You have devoted your energies to creating an amazing event that offers incredible benefits, so charge accordingly.


How to fill the room

Get commitment—Establish a deadline for attendee registrations and offer discounts for people who register on or before the closing date. You can also offer a variety of gifts in exchange for early registration, such as bonuses or gift certificates.

Create excitement—Start telling people about your event as early as possible. Catch their attention and prepare some enticing materials and sneak previews to create excitement.

Develop a sense of urgency—Send a reminder email to anyone who hasn’t regis­tered yet. “Only 10 spots left. Register today!” Remind them of just how they’ll benefit from attending, the sort of information they will only receive by being at your event.

Encourage attendees to bring their friends—everyone loves a bargain, so reward attendees who bring guests. For example, you could offer them a small discount.

Focus your marketing—Direct your marketing message toward the event’s unique selling points. It can be tempting to list every element and feature, and lose sight of the ben­efits. Attendees will want to know the event program, and mentioning a well-known key speaker will create a lot of attention. Remind people of the networking opportunities. Your marketing message should be bold, be memo­rable, and stand out.

Promote the event with multi-channel marketing—There is fierce competition in event marketing. New events are launched every week, and some might be in direct competition with yours. Take advantage of all the tools in your marketing toolkit. Don’t just rely on email. Provide links to your event website from your Facebook, Twitter, and other social media accounts. You can also send press releases and photographs to newspapers or trade publications and cross-promote on the websites of your sponsors. Don’t forget about direct mail.



Promoting your event

Ideally you want to attract people to your event without spending a fortune on advertising, and one of the most effective ways of achieving this is to have every piece of online and offline promotional material pointing toward your event website. It is the most powerful form of advertising you have, as it is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and is available to the whole world. Remember to give people a reason to visit your site, a call to action—this could be an interview with a keynote speaker, some bonus material, or discount coupons. And then once people are there you need to employ a list-building device so that you can connect with them over time.

You may have the budget to advertise in print and on the radio, but at best the results will only be satisfactory. Sure, you will make people aware of an event that you have taking place, but the chances are you will not actively engage minds and encourage people to attend.

Tailor your promotional efforts to reach people who are already interested in you and what you have to say. There is nothing worse than planning to host a magnificent event, only to have it ignored or have the wrong people turn up.

One of the crucial ways of getting the word out is to have others talk about it. Use regular emails and newsletters to generate a buzz and encourage people to tell their friends and family—it will save a lot on your marketing dollars.



You’re a smash hit success!

After the event you should be able to measure the results to know whether you’ve achieved your goals as well as a good return on your investment. Events are all about forging long-term relationships with your clients, and by creating a memorable experience you will motivate them to act. Be the best you can be and deliver what you promise—you will create a spectacular occasion that everyone will remember for a long time to come. –P.A.

Uh-oh! The Six Biggest Blunders Made by Event Hosts

Avoid the common blunders that can do serious damage to your chances of success.

Blunder one: Failing to budget properly
Have you allocated enough funds to pay for speaker travel arrangements, program handouts, and shipping costs? How many staff members or crew will you need and what will their costs be? Always budget for more than you think you will need, as the unforeseen will probably arise.

Blunder two: Hiring the wrong audio/visual equipment
There is a mind boggling array of vendors, gear, and appa­ratus out there, so be sure that what you order is suitable for your requirements and those of your speakers. It’s highly recom­mended that you do not try to do your own A/V.

Blunder three: Failing to have a plan
Detailed plans and checklists are essential. Creating a time­line that works for you will alleviate much of the stress. Complete tasks in a realistic timeframe to avoid last minute panic. Your plans should include all of the pre- and post-event tasks and their timeframe for completion.

Blunder four: Giving away the farm
Your event is in seven days time and you need another 15 signups to really make it work. So you start discounting heavily. But how do you think this makes other people feel who have already booked a place? Instead, offer early bird discounts for advance bookings. If you really need to fill those vacant chairs you will do yourself more favors and generate better PR by giving them away free as a thank you to loyal customers.

Blunder five: Not having support staff
Employ staff and/or volunteers to support you, support your guests, and create a welcoming and convivial atmosphere.

Blunder six: Having no follow-up
A single event will not make your business, so don’t forget about your attendees when the day is over. Send out a personal communication to each person and thank them for attending. Remind the attendee of what was learned and the main ben­efits, and remind them about any special offers or invitations you made at the event. You should also ask for feedback on your event—encourage two-way communication to further build rapport.

Ask some attendees if they would be kind enough to record a video testimonial which could be used to publicize your next event. They are extremely credible because they are real people using real words. Employ a videographer and consider recording a DVD of the event to use as future promotional material.


http://www.thealimagazine.com/event-hosting-blueprint

Saturday, February 13, 2010

6 Tips for Arranging Your Seating Chart

One of the most stressful tasks for the bride and groom to complete for their wedding day is the seating chart for the reception. Placing the wrong people next to each other for several hours, especially when alcohol may be served, could be potentially disastrous. If you are having problems coming up with a solution for where to stick various friends and family members, then the six tips listed below can help you devise the perfect plan of action for your seating chart.

1. Place People With Like Interests Together
If you have individuals who have never met each other that must sit together, at least make sure that they share many of the same interests. Chances are that even though they have not previously met, as long as they have some common thing to talk about, the mood at the table will not be tense or hostile. This allows guests to get to know new people in a less stressful manner.

2. Older Guests Should Be Farthest From the Noise
Weddings can be loud affairs. Speakers can blast music at a level that would be very uncomfortable for older guests. Older individuals should be seated as far away from extensive noise as possible. This includes seating them at a fair distance from the dance floor and children’s tables as well. Loud noise could be especially troublesome to those who have hearing aids in as well.

3. Do Not Seat Feuding Family Members near Each Other
There are always family members or friends at wedding events who are feuding for one reason or another. The key is for the bride and groom to avoid seating those individuals next to each other in the seating chart. The percent of people who will not get along at a wedding is relatively low, so it should be possible to place the guests on opposite ends of the room to keep them from coming into contact with one another.

4. Make Sure Guests Know Others at Their Table
While it is okay to sit guests at tables with some members that they do not know, you should make sure that each guest knows at least one other person at their table. It can be very uncomfortable to be seated at a table where you do not know anyone else and there is no one that you have anything in common with.

5. Those with Special Roles Should be Seated Up Front
If you have guests who will be giving speeches or who will be putting on a special performance, then these individuals should be seated up front and near the dance floor or stage. This makes things much more convenient for them and cuts down on the time they spend fighting their way back and forth through the crowd.

6. Only Close Friends and Wedding Party at Head Table
Only close friends who are in the wedding party and family members should be seated at the head table. While it can be hard to make the decision of who sits at the table with the bride and groom, allowing anyone but the wedding party and close family members may insult others around you.

Creating a seating chart can seem much like rocket science at times. Knowing where to sit each guest does not come naturally to most couples. The six tips above can help you place each guest in a location that will be convenient and comfortable for them.

http://www.weddingvendors.com/planning/articles/6-tips-for-arranging-your-seating-chart/

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

The White Wedding Cake

When it comes to wedding cakes these days, pretty much anything goes, in terms of color, style, and decorations. There is something to be said, however, for the restrained elegance of a classic white wedding cake. From contemporary to ornate, these are some design ideas for the perfect white cake to suit any wedding.


White does not have to mean boring or plain. In fact, there are many ways to make a white wedding cake special and unique. The place to begin is by deciding on the general style of cake you wish to feature, modern, traditional, or eclectic. From there, the next consideration is the shape of the confection, and the arrangement of the tiers. Square layers tend to look more modern and sleek, whereas round is more traditional. That is not to say, however, that you cannot come up with a creative modern design using round tiers or an updated classic wedding cake in a square shape.


For a sleek contemporary white cake, stack square tiers, either three or five layers high (always work in odd numbers). Cover with a perfectly smooth fondant icing. With this base in place, you can begin to play with different decorating options. A five tier cake could be decorated with white on white vertical stripes to enhance its height and linear form. Think of a 1930s streamline deco moderne skyscraper for inspiration. Top it with a crystal monogram initial for a touch of cool glamor.



Square cakes can be used as a base for a tower of gift wedding cake design. This is a fun way to add a touch of whimsy into a cake that is very suitable for a traditional wedding reception. White on white frosting ribbons, bows, and decorations can be created using gumpaste, fondant, and texture over a buttercream icing. Let the top of the cake be decorated with a large frosting bow. If you like, ask your baker to use a pearlized addition to the frosting to add shimmer and contrast between the "boxes" and the "ribbons". It is a subtle but gorgeous effect which looks fantastic when the bride is wearing pearl bridal jewelry.


Flowers are always lovely on wedding cakes, and they are a fantastic addition to an all white cake. For the height of elegance, a white fondant cake can be adorned with handmade gum paste orchids. The exotic blossoms can cascade down one side of the tiers. Another beautiful idea is to cover the top layer of a round white wedding cake with an abundance of fresh white flowers. Roses and hydrangea work very well, as their round shape will easily cover the entire top tier when used in a group. Fresh flowers are not only very pretty, but less costly than gum paste blossoms.
Finally, there is the very traditional white wedding cake decorated with a profusion of white frosting swags, scrolls, bows, and pearls. This is a magnificent option for a very formal and grand wedding reception. The "pearl" accents on the cake will complement the bride's pearl bridal jewelry, and architectural details like swags and scrolls are marvelous in an ornately decorated ballroom. If you are looking for an impressive and traditional all white wedding cake for an elegant wedding, this design will be sure to please.

White Wedding Cakes - Submitted By: Bridget Mora
About the Author: Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, design, and decor. For a beautiful selection of  pearl bridal jewelry, visit http://silverlandjewelry.com/ today. All jewelry orders over $99 receive complimentary shipping!

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Saturday, December 26, 2009

Valentine's Day, Sunday February 14, 2010


Nothing could be more romantic than a wedding on Valentine's Day! It doesn't matter where you get married, if Cupid is there. If you love Valentine's Day, then go ahead and get married that day. It will be completely appropriate and expected to use all the readily available "heart and arrows" decorations you love. Your colors can be pink, red, and white. Red and pink roses would be awesome for the bouquet, but red and pink carnations would be just as appropriate. Your friends and family will have the perfect Valentine's date, right there at your wedding. You can give your guests Valentines for party favors or as thank-you notes. If you are sentimental or on a tight budget, then Valentine's is your winter wedding date.
Source: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1664407/most_popular_winter_wedding_dates_2009_pg2.html?cat=23
April 21, 2009 by Cherise Kelley

Friday, December 4, 2009

Are you planning a wedding in 2013, but…

You’re wondering if the day is to far?

No, the date is not far away.

However, a lot of things can change between now and then most importantly the fads! What’s in today may not be in tomorrow.

Make sure that all of your wedding party, important family and friends can make arrangements with their employer to get that time off – this far in advance. As you don’t want the date to get closer only to find out someone very, very special to you can’t attend.

The BEST Thing is by planning this far out – allows for great bargain buys and sales. You can have a Platinum Wedding, without stretching your dollars the year of your wedding; as you can manage from now to then. BUT I ADVISE YOU TO CLEARLY THINK OUT YOUR WEDDING COLOR SCHEME AND THEME, BEFORE MAKING ANY PURCHASES! Also, stay far away from impulse buys!

Please feel free to contact me if you need further assistance so we can plan you wedding together!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

10 Ways to Celebrate Your Marriage

♥ Opportunities to connect and feel good about your relationship are lurking everywhere ♥

When you first met and got hitched, you couldn't stop gushing about married life and how wondrous it was going to be. In fact, the situation was so serious that your best friend, your sister, and even your mother were getting a little tired of hearing the details.
But then, after the wedding hoopla faded, you probably found that life kicked in at a wicked pace, your priorities got reshuffled, and you just didn't have time to sit back and reflect on your marital bliss. If you can relate, know this: "It's not the traditional stuff — the big dinner out once a year, or even the regular Saturday-night dates — that pulls you together and bonds you," says Constance Ahrons, Ph.D. "It's little bits of time stolen together and small, frequent gestures that remind you of what you have in common and your commitment to each other." Of course, no one's saying you should bag the annual dinner. But try these ideas from experts and couples, and you'll find that opportunities to connect and feel really good about your marriage are lurking everywhere, every day of the year.


1. Tell him you love him
Spill your most loving thoughts. "We tend to get caught up in complaining — he doesn't say this or do that — but it's so important to affirm out loud what a great guy he is, and why you fell in love with him, and love him so much today," says Gloria Richfield, Ph.D. Next time he cracks you up, pipe up about how incredible it is to be married to a guy with such a terrific sense of humor; or first thing in the morning, before your feet touch the floor, let him hear that whatever the workday holds can't faze you, since you know you'll see him that night.

2. Talk about the future
All new couples love to daydream about the future — the places you'll go, the parties you'll throw, the house you'll renovate — but that habit tends to fall by the wayside when you're in a long-standing union. To get that sense of anticipation going again, and make sure the coming years have the highlights you're hoping for, visualize the future together. Plan a romantic vacation, a wilderness adventure or something closer to home, like putting a Jacuzzi in your bathroom — and make it happen.

3. Give "just-because" gifts
Instead of going for big-ticket items on "real holidays," a writer and mom of three in California and her husband, Bill, give gifts when the appropriate occasion strikes, calendar be damned. "When I noticed that I was bored silly with seeing him in the same suit everyday, I took him shopping for a new one, and when he saw that a writer's conference was coming to a college near us, he signed me up to help my journalism career along," she says. "Those kinds of gifts make us feel connected, like we're looking out for each other all year long."

4. Keep a sex diary
"During our first anniversary dinner, after a little too much wine, my husband toasted our sex life and a particularly unusual spot in which we'd done the deed," says a portrait artist in Texas. "We began reminiscing and wrote down, in the back of my datebook, every place we'd ever had sex. Now, every anniversary dinner, we update that list, and if the new locations aren't numerous or exciting enough, we challenge ourselves to do better next year. It's silly but fun, and lets us obsess over our sex life a little."

5. Take the "happy" challenge
Your child's favorite shirt has gone AWOL. You've forgotten to mail the car payment for a week now. On top of all this, you're supposed to commit random acts of kindness for your husband? Well, yes, say the experts — you've got to make an effort to pamper that life partner of yours. "Ask yourself: 'What one little thing can I do to make this person happy today?'" suggests Judith Wallerstein, Ph.D. It can be something as little as bringing a cup of coffee with just the right amount of milk or calling during the day to say, "I'm thinking about you." Those little touches make a guy feel appreciated, nurtured — and altogether in love with the institution of marriage.

6. Toast each other
Recognize the good stuff regularly. "We inherited this huge champagne glass from my grandparents — it holds almost a whole bottle of bubbly — and any time we have an excuse, we bring it down and drink to our life together," says one woman who works at a law firm. "We've used it on anniversaries, when we closed on our house and when either of us got a promotion or a new job." So if you didn't receive a pair of champagne glasses as a wedding present, buy some now and put them to use — often.

7. Get your picture taken
If you're like most couples, the only recent photograph you have is of your forearm bracing your child as she tries out her new Jolly Jumper. Invest in having a professional photo taken of you and your man, frame it, and squeeze it in between those baby pictures covering the hallway wall. That permanent record of the two of you, beaming at each other, will reinforce your happy state of togetherness whenever you glance at it.

8. Avoid usual topics
When you do have some quality time together — maybe on Sunday morning while the kids are watching cartoons — don't let conversation fall into the usual ruts, says Dr. Wallerstein, be it complaining about the boss or strategizing how to get your toddler to eat something other than peas. "Really talking — about your hopes, say, or your innermost thoughts — has an energizing effect on the relationship and helps you better know and appreciate each other," she says.

9. Re-create your early bonding ritual
Were the two of you knocked out by a particular film on one of your first dates? Rent it. Is there an album that served as the soundtrack to the summer you fell in love? Play it — often. Or did you used to meet for a drink at that little bar near the bookstore? Go there again. All will remind you of those heady early days, and give you ample opportunity to note how your love has deepened since.

10. Check on your sleeping children — together
The ideal time to moon over them is when they're soundly asleep, like angels. Tiptoe in together and revel in the fact that you made these wondrous little creatures. And remember, be very, very quiet.

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